Can Someone Help,Is God Punishin Me?
Hi,I did the following:
Q&A: Can Someone Help,Is God Punishin Me?
To start off I met this girl through a friend and ever since then I started to like her, and the friend who i met her through told me this girl had something for me but she had a bf at the time but she would call and ask me to chill sometime so we did..So Time went by and It just so happen i met this girl again at school and she need a ride since her car broke and ever since then we had started talking more. I asked her about the Bf she had and she said he left her and it had hurt her and now she was talking to someone else. So i knew i didn’t have a chance then, but during this time she would text me, It got to the point i knew what time she would text me. So after a couple of months we got closer as friend and i would pick her up from work and chill sometimes. After a while the guy she was talking to had left and she said she was hurt by that. I didn’t think nothing of it since she had turned me down before, so she ask me one nigh to stay over and from there we was together ever day. I did everything i could to make her happy i brought her shoes,clothes, I even took a trip across country to be with her, I never asked her for anything, she cooked for me that was about it and love to have sex, but she never gave me nothing for my bday, xmas,val day, or just to show how much she loved me since she said she did, not even a card, but she brought things for her friends and self.I asked her one time to get me something since she was shoping that she thought i was worth and she brought me a lighter. Then it came to a point when she was moving I was the only one who was helping her move from AL to GA and while i was moving her stuff up and down the stairs she scream she needs a MAN that really hurt me then.So now that she is there and im her at first she was out there with no job or friend so i visited her to keep her company and when she asked i gave her some money to keep her going, so then one day she decided she want to end the relationship after i found a note that she had written to an old old old bf she knew that went to jail claiming she loves him and they was meant to be together.So after i stop going down there i would still send her money to help her till she got a job and the only time she would say something to me is when she needed money.So now that she has a job she doesnt say nothing to me at all really unless i say something. She claims that we are not made to be with each other and that we cant talk without fighting but i never try to fight with her all i do is ask a question and she blows up about it and it can be a simple question like “So have to met a friend(guy), ? just to see how she is doing since she out there by herself getting to know new thing i just wanted to make sure she dont end up no where stupid and she gives me an answer that none of my bizness.
All i want to know is, Is the help and moeny and time i spent point less, I mean i never lied or cheated on this girl I know we are both scorpios but god put people in our life for reasons.
And i believe in Karma Will what she has done to me turn on her? Im scared to think…….
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Answer by Silent-H
God doesn’t exist, Astrology doesn’t work, and Karma is a myth…
You’re a sucker, plain and simple.
She played you.
Move on and forget her.
Answer by oldguy63
I have no idea why you would ask this in the R&S section but you just need the Lord Jesus Christ in your life and you will realize the foolishness of the way you are living.
Answer by Andrew
Pray, pray, and pray to the one and only God. Ask Him to show you the way He wants you to go. Just try it with an open mind, and God will lead you.
Answer by mainlee1
She’s just not that into you. Move on.
Answer by Tracy
No God is not punishing you,the thing is this girl took advantage of you because she knew you loved her,she seem to have been in abusive relationships a lot and does not know how to respond to descent guys,i suggest you leave her and move on.I think the only reason she spent time with you was because she only wanted your money and nothing else just leave her its her loss anyway.
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November 24, 2010
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God is not punishing you, you seem to be doing that all by yourself. If this girl is as selfish as you say she is, why would you want to be with her? Take control of your own life, do not look for someone else to bring you happiness. True happiness comes from within, and maybe you should look to God for answers.
God is not punishing you. You are doing that to your self.
You did a wonderful thing in helping her but she was using you to lean on (so to speak)’she’s now on her feet again and doesn’t need your help.
Where you both went wrong is having sex without marriage to each other. That is a big sin and you must repent of it in order to get back in Gods Grace.