Have you ever dated someone only to find their gender wasn’t what you thought it was?
Hi,I did the following:
Q&A: Have you ever dated someone only to find their gender wasn’t what you thought it was?
I recently watched a documentary on a woman who married a man without knowing he had actually been born female. Has something similar ever happened to you or someone you know? Did the relationship work out afterwards?
I am asking in all seriousness so there’s no need for rude jokes or disrespect. I just thought it was an interesting topic and had never really thought about it before…
The answer in the following:
Answer by teddy leaddis
if I ever did I would have to shoot myself
Answer by Coffee Chrisp Fatty
Nope, I wonder how it’ll feel too love the same gender
Answer by Lucy
that is quite interesting, i have never come across a story such as this. i would imagine that if the couple were in love that this would not matter, and that they would continue to stay together.
Answer by Just me
No, I never have dated anyone that was other than the gender than I thought they were. This can not be very common. Interesting story you saw on tv though.
Answer by Alexis
no way, Jose
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October 19, 2011
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No, and if it did happen, I would not be kind.
My sister did that with her “boyfriend”.
If I ever got with a “tranny” then I would really have to either shoot myself or put my pen1s in a sterilizer for three months.
no that never happen to me but if it did i would be very mad, but one time i did see a very attractive woman come to find out she was a man, but i never did anything with her, i just thought she was hot, its a shame that some men dress better then woman
No, I am all about the ‘test drive’ in that regard.
No. I’m not that clueless.
Whoa. Nope, never had that happened to me before. It sounds kind of interesting though. =)
never experienced this, but why would that other person lie and hurt someones emotions like that by not telling them their real sexuality from the gate
Umm your question is a bit offensive. You seem to presume that the gender assigned at birth is a persons true gender and that is not so. A persons true gender is what they say it is. Gender identity is inborn and unchangeable. And some of us were born with a brain-body mismatch, that is why we transition, to be our true selves.
Hopefully I’m wrong, but that’s how I interpreted your question.
edit: As usual some pretty ignorant comments (“I’d shoot myself” etc). Some of you people could benefit from a visit to this site:
http://www.LynnConway.com
Educate yourselves!
No, that has never happened to to me or anyone I know.
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This happened to my sister needless to say they are still dating they have been dating for like idk lol there a really cute couple and the boy is really nice and good for her
no but i would be very mad,,
If you’re dating somebody, it’s pretty inherent that you know their gender. Maybe their anatomy doesn’t match what most people typically assume for that gender, but that doesn’t change their gender.
Hell no I haven’t & Im glad because if it ever happened.. I’d be beyond pi**ed off
yes it has happened to me. I was with her for 6 monthes, until she told me the truth. She lied about her name, age, religion , gender and where she lived. She was a complete liar. I still stayed with her though because I loved her for who she was not was between her legs.
no it has not, but im sure it would be a rocky relationship built on lies, but the other person would just feel…worthless if they werent loved because of that and thats sad
I met my partner as a slightly girly guy, but almost straight away he said, look if we are going to be mates you better know I like to wear womens clothes. So what said I. The more we got to know each other the more we talked and it turned out they were transgendered and not transvestite.
We are now a couple and she is transitioning, living and working as a female.
I am a transsexual woman I am engaged to a man who was told my history 30 seconds after he asked me out on our first date together.
The transsexual man who had married the woman should have been honest from the beginning. But I also believe that if she loved him she should stay with him and support him 100%.
This is for the majority of the people who have given answers to your question, go to this link that Radgal gave and I will also give and educate yourselves
http://www.LynnConway.com