please i beg you someone help me my family is killing me… slowly?
November 26, 2010
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Question: please i beg you someone help me my family is killing me… slowly?
okay i am 19 and i am living at home in melb au… but my household is very stressing and depressing i cant live here due to the fact i get verbally abused/physcially abused and i want out… i cant find a job because i get no way out of the house i have to always look after kids that arent my own… the nearest shoping center is 1 hour 45 min walk… i have alot of friends in adealide who id love to meet and hang with and id like to live there but i only get centerlink payment of 244$ i am not happy living at home and i fear if this contunies i wont be around much longer. u have no idea of the torment … how would i go about moving to adelaide? what would i need 2 do any ideas on where i could stay with a certain group or something any advice is much greatly apreicated thank you…
see the thing is i only get 2 payments a month… and i have to pay 200$ for rent… just to live in the gargage cause i cant pay to live in my own room my mum is not a mum at all but a monster…
centerlink is govement pay idk what hostels are and findinga job is not easy so 24 a day is hard…. cause the money will run out before i get paid again.. then im screwed…
idk all my freinds live with there parents and said they would love 2 help me if they lived by them selfs… dont think there parents would be cool
im 2 afraid to go to the police because my mum calls her brothers and they beat me up they even broke my shoulder once.. and now im double jointed there…
any other way…? i no it’s not easy .. but i need out..
btw how do i reply back to my own question without this additinal detail crap.
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Answer by Crystal Rose
You can try looking for a group home. It may seem lame and scary at first but it will help you get started in the life you want. Im sorry about the abbuse you are going through. I have been abused and I know it is really hard to overcome and think you can still live. Stay strong and really look into a group home.
Answer by The Misanthrope
What is centerlink payment?
Whatever centerlink is… can you save up a few hundred dollars? I just looked it up and there are hostels in adelaide that costs around 24 dollars a day. You could go there, and stay in a hostel until you find a job.
Then you could start your new life. It’s hard to go out on your own like that… but the strength is in you somewhere. Just decide what you want… and then get it. It’s real simple, once you discount yourself as an obstacle.
You could probably even find some kind of a boarding house, too, that may be even cheaper.
Answer by Fadin Reigne
This depends on how bad you want out. Pack a bag and leave. Living on the street has to be better then being dead…no? Is living on the street worse then living where you are? If it is, you don’t want out bad enough yet and stay put.
Answer by Innominate
Ask one of your friends in Adelaide if you can stay with them for a few weeks while you find a job/new place. Save up as much money as you can so you can offer to pay rent. Then, no warning, just leave. 
Leave a note saying you’re moving out so they won’t report you missing or anything.
Answer by Kitty Cat
try as you said moving to your friends house or when you get enough money totally move out of town
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You are entitled to leave home.
Contact your friends and find out if you can’t go and live with them. If you share with several others, you would survive on the dole payment. But you’d have to move there long-term, not just go for a holiday. Start looking at job opportunities in Adelaide.
You MUST be looking for a job and doing the activities they’ve mapped out for you, or you will lose the Centrelink payment. Consider getting enrolled into some job training program. Your family would have to let you attend, if your money depends on doing it.
If you are living in a seriously abusive situation, you can get some priority for State housing (but even so the waiting can be many months). Go to Cnetrelink and ask to see a counsellor to discuss your options.
I just saw your additional details. DEFINITELY go the nearest Department of Housing office and fill a form for emergency housing, telling them you are being abused, and give them whatever papers you might have to prove about the broken shoulder or other injuries.
They can move you immediately into a boarding house room, where they will pay the rent for you, then give you a small place of your own within a few months. Talk also to the Centrelink counsellor, they will exempt you from the job search requirements while you move and settle in.
Pack your things quietly and secretly, then do the move when nobody else is home, so they don’t stop you. If they DO try to, call the police to help you. Of course don’t tell anyone your new address, but DO ring home, say once a week, to say you’re ok thank you, so they can’t claim they are worried about you.
I’m so sorry
you made need to get the police involved for your safety